Using Essential Oils

How I Use Essential Oils to Promote Feelings of Peace & Calm

When the day gets derailed or the bad news comes, how do you cope? Is there a way to use essential oils to promote feelings of peace and calm in the midst of chaos? Let me share my favorite tips with you!

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We’ve all had weeks where it feels like everything goes sideways. Last week was definitely one of those weeks in our house between Jem getting four stitches in his chin on Tuesday and John getting in a car accident on Friday night. Honestly, it was stressful. I’m still feeling it in my body. My brain feels fuzzy and my shoulders are tight. But, we walked through the week with surprising calm in spite of our circumstances, and our doTERRA essential oils were a critical part of the journey.

Note: I’m using a couple recent events as examples in this blog, but my recommendations are the same for a variety of circumstances. These have been my protocols through longer stretches of anxious feelings, through grief, though uncomfortable social situations, etc. Also, as always, I am not a health professional. I am speaking form personal experience and if you have ongoing feelings of anxiety or sadness, please talk to a mental health professional.

 
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What oils do I use to promote feelings of calm?

Balance (Grounding Blend)- Promotes feelings of stability and centering. Apply one drop neat (dilute for children or sensitive skin) to bottoms of feet and massage. Sit quietly and breathe deeply for one minute.

Frankincense- Promotes feelings of unity. Put a drop neat (diffuse for sensitive skin and children) along the hairline of the forehead, the part of the hair, and the base of the neck. Diffuse (alone or with other oils).

Lavender- Promotes feelings of calmness, regeneration, and healing. Roll diluted onto back of neck and wrists before stressful situations or at night time.

Lemongrass- Promotes feelings of flow. Diffuse a few drops (alone or with Frankincense).

Peace Blend (Reassuring blend)- Promotes feelings of courage, composure, and flow. Primary ingredients include vetiver, lavender, ylang ylang, and frankincense. Diffuse and/or roll diluted over heart, wrists, and back of neck.

In the Moment

When a stressful event occurs, one of two things is likely to happen. Either, you immediately go to bits and can’t think clearly or you become terrifyingly “calm.” In either case, it may not feel natural to reach for oils, because you’re either totally overwhelmed or busy doing something important like stopping the bleeding on your kid’s face. Train your brain to reach for the oils ASAP. When Jem split his chin this week, I remembered to grab oils before we left for the Urgent Care. I applied a Peace roller on both of us— over our hearts, on our wrists, down our necks and spines— and immediately felt us exhale. A couple hours later, right before Jem got his stitches, I applied lavender on him the same way and watched the exhale. He was able to breathe deeply and calmly and be exceptionally chill while the doc did her work (and the nurse told me the room smelled amazing— I love the side benefits of essential oils!).

Just like my mama instincts include things like, “Stop the bleeding then clean and cover cuts” and “deep cuts might need stitches,” I also want my mama (and self-care) instincts to include oils. Just like I put a bandage on a cut finger without really thinking about it, so I want to put oils over my anxious-feeling heart without really thinking about it. I want essential oils to be an emotional wellness habit!

 
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In the Aftermath

Both Wednesday after Jem’s stitches and Saturday after John’s accident, I could have done better about applying oils to our family to continue promoting feelings of calm. Don’t forget that negative emotions will often kick in stronger later as our “fight or flight” instinct wears off and we begin to really feel the stress. This is especially true in situations where grief or healing follows an event— keep using those oils. First calming ones, then, as you feel inclined, more joy-promoting oils.

With Kids

Just a quick note: I use the same oils on my kids to promote feelings of peace and calm that I do on myself, I just dilute theirs in roller bottles (see this post for notes about diluting) for easy and safe application). If your kids are able, let them give input about what oils you use on and around them. Kids have good instincts.

 
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At Night

I love to diffuse at night. All of the oils listed above are in my rotation of night time favorites, but this week I’ve been especially drawn to 3-4 drops of lemongrass with 3-4 drops of Frankincense. These are oils that help me feel calm and flowing (you know that feeling when you lose track of time while quilting? That feeling), and I think I’ve been drawn to them because I don’t want to feel emotionally “stuck” in recent events. While both Jem’s stitches and John’s car accident were stressful situations, I want to focus on the good stuff (they’re both okay!!), and look ahead to the other side of healing. During times of stress, if diffusing alone doesn’t help me sleep well, I will also roll lavender or Peace over my wrists to absorb them through my skin and breathe them closer to my face through the night.

I don’t diffuse in my boys’ room yet (because I’m concerned the diffuser would get destroyed in the happy chaos), so I will roll lavender on their wrists or pillowcases before bed to help them settle.

 
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With Other Healing Practices

The most important things I can emphasize to you are 1) Use your oils when emotions run high and 2) Use your oils WITH other self-care practices. On an airplane, safety protocol ALWAYS dictates that you put on your own oxygen mask first, then put on the masks of others. Similarly, under times of stress, especially if you are a nurturer by nature or role, self-care/ “me time” / personal hobbies, etc are often the first thing to “give.” However, here are some key practices to hold on tight to and to use your oils alongside.

Drink enough water Drink at least half your body weight in ounces of water each day. Drink from a glass or stainless steel container, and add a drop of citrus oil to make it taste yummy and help keep your gut healthy while you navigate life.

Eat Healthy Just trust me that you will in fact feel better if you eat lots of fruits and veggies instead of sweets. I love to use a drop of lemon oil in a bowl of water to clean our produce. Just soak for 3-5 minutes then rinse thoroughly.

Move Your Body Stretch or do some yoga flow. Run. Walk. Go to the playground and swing. Movement, fresh air, and sunshine are some of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves. Don’t break your movement routine when stressful events happen. Instead, use movement to keep your emotions moving and balanced just like your body. In addition to the oils listed above, I love to apply lemongrass diluted topically to my joints before I exercise, and DeepBlue to major muscle groups afterward. Put a drop of peppermint under your tongue beforehand too for respiratory support and a nice “wake up” feeling.

Get Creative Quilt, write, paint, sculpt. Whatever your creative outlet is, DO THAT. Truly, carve out time. Even just a half hour a day. When emotions are high, I like to do a bit of a “sandwich”: Diffuse some oils (either one or more of those above, though wild orange is also a favorite of mine in the sewing room), and stretch a bit first, then get creative, then stretch a bit more at the end. For some creatives, this time is really a “working through” time. If that’s your jam, embrace that. For me, I usually prefer to leave my troubles at the door and just be in my happy place when I sew. It gives my brain and my body a break from whatever is going on.

Closing Thoughts

There are two reasons using essential oils to promote feelings of peace and calm during stressful events is important. First, our bodies chemically interact with the oils, and they help us regulate our feelings and more. This is a physical and emotional benefit that’s happening in our body systems. Second, aromas act as an “anchor” in the brain (If you’re not sure what I mean by that, pause and think about how your two or three favorite places smell. Or think about how valuable something like a sweatshirt of a loved one becomes if they pass away or go on a long trip and you want them to feel closer). This is why it is worth making essential oils a habit, especially if you regularly experience anxious feelings. Identifying a couple of favorite oils to use habitually when releasing one emotion and calling in another will build the association in your brain that says, “When I want to feel (blank), I smell (blank).” As the association strengthens, it will feel easier to release the negative emotion and embrace the positive. At the end of the day, we have the ability to be more empowered about our emotional wellness than we often recognize, and essential oils are a vital part of a healthy emotions toolbox.

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How Do I Use Essential Oils?

When I say “essential oil,” you think “diffuser,” right? And you ARE right, but did you know that essential oils can be used other ways as well? Let’s take a look:

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There are several ways to use essential oils in daily life, but let’s start with a crucial fact: The most, most, most important thing to know about high quality essential oils (like doTERRA essential oils) is that they are very potent. Less is more when it comes to these amazing nature-made supports. As an example, one drop of Peppermint oil is as potent as TWENTY-EIGHT cups of peppermint herbal tea. WHOA. (By the way, if you’re curious about what essential oils are and why they work, check out this post) So, how to we get these powerful little drops to support our bodies? There are three ways:

 
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Aromatic

In my experience, a lot of folks discover essential oils because they want their home or office to smell nice, but they’d like a more natural alternative to typical air fresheners. While I 100% support this use of oils, let me tell you a little bit more about what’s special diffusing. Diffusing essential oils means using a device (a diffuser) that vibrates cold water and essential oils into tiny particles that become airborne and fill a space. The particles are so small that they are easily absorbed by the body when we breathe and can have powerful physical and emotional effects. If you need seasonal respiratory support, want an effective front-line defense against airborne environmental threats, or want to effect the mood or “vibe” of a room, then diffusing is for you, my friend! Here are a few blends to try:

Seasonal Support: Diffuse 2 drops each of lemon, lavender, and peppermint or 4-6 drops of Breathe blend to encourage open airways

Environmental Support: Diffuse 4-6 drops of OnGuard blend to kill airborne threats and support the immune system (I do this daily in the kitchen/ living area of our home during the cooler months)

Chill Out: Diffuse 4-6 drops of Peace blend or 2-3 drops of lavender and 2-3 drops of eucalyptus to encourage feelings of calm

Get ‘Er Done: Diffuse 4-6 drops of Motivate blend or 2-3 drops of Peppermint and 2-3 drops of Wild Orange to encourage feelings of alertness and enthusiasm

TIP: Use 1 drop of essential oil per hour of diffusing time. For example, I use 3-5 drops of oil in the Petal 4 hour diffuser and 5-10 drops in the Lumo or Brevi 10 hour diffusers. Use fewer drops of oil for a less potent experience, and if you have pets in your home, err on the lighter side with the oils and always make sure they have the option to leave the room/ area where you are diffusing.

 
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Topical

As you may guess, using oils topically means putting them on our skin. Remember, our skin is our BIGGEST organ, so this is a super effective way for our bodies to absorb the beautiful properties of these oils. PLUS, our body then becomes a built in diffuser, so we get some aromatic benefits from using oils this way too. I use oils on my skin for everything from encouraging healthy skin cells, to taming my tummy, to supporting muscles and joints before and after exercise, and more! When using oils topically, it is important to dilute them with a carrier oil (often Fractionated Coconut Oil, but I also use jojoba and sweet almond oils) to spread them across the skin, reduce skin sensitivity (remember how potent essential oils are!), and encourage absorption by the body.

Tip: Some oils, especially citrus oils, are photosensitive. Take care to avoid direct sunlight on the applied areas for 12 hours after use.

Here are some of my favorite topical oil blends:

Clear Skin Roller: Support soft, clear skin by mixing 15 drops each of Melaleuca, Frankincense, and Copaiba in a 10ml roller bottle then filling to the top with your favorite carrier oil. Roll on face (avoiding eyes) after washing.

Tummy Tamer: Roll a DigestZen roller across your tummy (I like to draw a smiley face LOL) to ease discomfort and encourage gastrointestinal health. (Especially after eating dessert or pizza, ya know?) Make your own roller by adding 20-30 drops of DigestZen to a 10ml roller and filling to the top with your favorite carrier oil.

Muscle Massage: Ease knots and reward a workout by massaging DeepBlue Rub into major muscle groups after exercising.

Pick Me Up: Use your favorite doTERRA emotional aromatherapy roller as perfume (I especially love using Cheer, Passion, and Motivate) by rolling it behind your ears and at the base of your head at the hairline. it makes you smell fresh, you can reapply any time, and you get the emotional benefits of breathing and absorbing the oils all day long!

Tip: Dilute, Dilute, Dilute! For adults, it only takes a few drops of essential oils in a teaspoon or so of carrier oil to be effective. For kiddos, only a drop in a teaspoon of carrier oil, and for babies, only a drop in a tablespoon of carrier oil. Remember, less is more!

 
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Internal

We all consume essential oils when we eat fresh, aromatic foods (fresh herbs, citrus fruit, etc), and we can consume them already distilled as well. In fact, some of the most powerful benefits of essential oils can be harnessed by taking the oils internally! For your safety, I only recommend doing so with doTERRA’s CPTG certified oils and only with oils that have the “supplement facts” label on them (please remember that I am not a doctor, and you should proceed according to your comfort level and common sense and consider consulting your doctor. I am sharing here what I have found to be effective for me). I love using essential oils internally to support my respiratory and immune systems on a daily basis. Products I love include doTERRA Triease capsules and OnGuard Capsules.

Tip: Adults should not consume more than 20-24 drops of essential oils within a 24 hour period, and children should not consume more than 10-12. I do not recommend internal use for children under the age of 6.

 

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